How to Not Cheat On Your Spouse

Being with the same person for 5, 10, 20, 30 years seems to be more and more uncommon these days. Cheating spouses is probably the biggest reason for relationships ending. Yes, it is difficult to be in a long term relationship with out cheating but not impossible if you give it the effort. Many have been faithful for 20 years and then one day find themselves cheating. These tips will help keep you from not cheating on your partner.

Do not get to close to a friend of the opposite sex. OK, I can hear all the people who are saying that they can just be friends with a member of the opposite sex without anything happening but if given enough time with someone; closeness becomes intimate and something may happen. It is not guaranteed to happen but why put yourself in this situation and increase the chances of you cheating on your partner.

Don't put yourself in a personal setting with a member of the opposite sex. For instance, don't be going out to dinner all alone with someone. Don't go hang out at the park together all alone. Why put yourself in this situation!

Don't tell all your secrets to your opposite sex friend. Why ain't you telling your partner instead? If you can't tell your partner these secrets then get yourself a member of your sex to talk to and tell your secrets. Many woman will say that they don't get along with other woman and that's why they have all guy friends, this is crap! If you don't want to cheat on your partner then you can't be having a best friend of the opposite sex that you are telling all your secrets to.

Keep busy in your life. If you live a busy life then you will spend less time thinking about cheating on your partner. You have other things going on in your life that are more important. KEEP BUSY! If you are an unemployed person who just sits around all day and does nothing then you are probably going to hang around thinking about cheating on your partner. You don't want those kind of thoughts so keep busy!

Think about your partner and keep the romance alive by spending time together. Many people will stray away when they feel like their relationship has died. It's up to you to bring it back alive. Spend quality time with your partner.

Stay intimate with your partner. People love to be intimate and when it is not there you may feel the need to get it somewhere else. Be intimate with your partner and your partner will return the favor.

Don't ever think that cheating is something that everyone does. Though some people may make it seem like it is normal to cheat it does not have to be so for you.

Not cheating on your partner takes work and when you committed to your relationship you did give up certain things in life. You will have to give up certain aspects of your social life which means having so called just friends. Having members of the opposite sex as so called just friends will not help you to achieve your goal in being a faithful companion.

Think about the consequences if you got caught cheating. It is the ultimate betrayal in a relationship and even if you were forgiven things will never be the same. Lack of love is not the reason people cheat it is usually the intimacy of a relationship that causes one to cheat.

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